So for you
 not being

 comes
 before
 having
 
 Funny that
don't you think
not being
 before
 having
 
 So who in infancy
could you comfortably
not be it for whilst
retaining the ability
of having?

your

Ma

your

Da

or

Both

or is it
obsessed
with some
stand-in
"Ma" or "Da"
perhaps a
Grandma or
a Granda or an
Auntie Nettie or
your Ma's two
doors down
lover
"Uncle"
Jim

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