So for you
 being
comes
before
 having
 
 Funny that
don't you think
being
 before
 having

So who's bidding
in infancy did you
force yourself to do
in order to be it and
have it for?

your

Ma

your

Da

or

Both


or is it
obsessed
with some
stand-in
"Ma" or "Da"
perhaps a
Grandma or
a Granda or an
Auntie Nettie or
your Ma's two
doors down
lover
"Uncle"
Jim

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