So for you
 
not having
 comes
 before
 being
 
 Funny that
don't you think
not having
 before
 being

So in infancy who's
 desire for the Other
 
were you first
 aware of?

Your Mum's for your Dad
or your Dad's for your Mum?

Who wanted the Other more
than the Other wanted them?

Mum for Dad

Dad for Mum

Both for (each)Other

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