So for you
being
comes
before having
 
Funny that don't
you think being
before having

So who in infancy
could you be it for
but not have it?

your

Ma

your

Da

or

Both

or is it
obsessed
with some
stand-in
"Ma" or "Da"
perhaps a
Grandma or
a Granda or an
Auntie Nettie or
your Ma's two
doors down
lover
"Uncle"
Jim

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